See Reasons Why Most Nigerian Parent Disapprove Inter-Tribal Relationship

Few relationship in Nigeria are working out fine while most relationship are nose-diving due to so many reasons.

 
Some reasons are Lack of understanding, Financial instability, Parent or friends pressures, Bareness, just to mention a few. 


There are three(3) major tribe in Nigeria and each has the same culture they follow during their marriage procedures.  In some tribe, their family culture maybe, their first daughter must not get married to from other tribe. For example, in the previous century, it is rare you see a Yoruba get married to an Igbo lady or an Hausa man dating a Yoruba lady.

DEFINITION OF LOVE
Love is having a strong feeling of affection and great interest and pleasure in someone.  What people do not actually know is, Love does not have any barrier in terms of Tribe , Race , Delicacy , Language.

WHY DO PARENT GO AGAINST INTER TRIBAL RELATIONSHIP ?
Parent do have reasons for the pressures they put on their children but most of the reasons are meaningless. If the child finally yield to the instruction of the parent (leaving his/her true love) , if you can trace the progress of the new relationship, you will find out 90% are full of failure and lack of love.
The most painful part in the issue of some parent about inter-tribe relationship are the irrelevant reasons they tell their children such as:
  • ·         I don’t just like their tradition”,
  • ·         I dislike their marriage arrangement procedures”,
  • ·         I hate their mode of dressing”,
  • ·         Their delicacies are irritating
  • ·         I don’t like their language and so on.


The world is evolving round so fast now and this century is getting more modernized and enlightened that the people can’t be brainwashed about the marital system.  

MY ADVICE
I’m not supporting  you to disobey the words of your parent/elders but you just have to think wisely when it come to the area of your marital life because marriage is a together life contract between two people. So therefore, you have to choose the right person you will spend the rest of your life with.
It is good to date a beautiful lady but all is not about beauty, good character, respect and intelligence matters a lot. Also pray well for you to find the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh.


Kindly E-mail: johnokunola2149@gmail.com for more counsel.

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